Now, a friend of Sandra and her cheating husband Jesse James tells Fox 411.com that the Oscar-winning actress has a "master plan" to end their six-year marriage.
"[The infidelity scandal has] broken her heart, and they will divorce," the source told Fox411.com. "She is trying to pick her way through the mess and all the stress of knowing his three children will be hurt no matter what happens. The kids are what is holding her back from filing for the divorce immediately. It's been tough and she wants to find a balance for them - they deserve some stability, even through the divorce."
"With Jesse in rehab, she is trying to tread lightly. Sandra is doing this on her own timeline and refuses to budge or give in to people who say she should divorce him immediately," the source explained. "Jesse and his children are her family and in some ways always will be. She is not ready to scrap it all as fast as possible. She's taken some time off and plans to stay out of the spotlight. Sandra and Jesse will talk again, but divorce will happen. She has a master plan."
The insider said Bullock has definitely come to grips with the fact that James was not the guy she thought he was.
"Sandra got to be with a side of Jesse that he rarely gave to anyone else and now she's seeing what everyone else always saw," the pal said. "They were truly from different worlds and Sandra sees that Jesse lived a double life with her. She's so level-headed and grounded and that is what is getting her through this."
Oscar winner Sandra Bullock’s celebration has been traded for a time of turmoil. Bullock has remained out of the spotlight since the scandal with her husband Jesse James began 1-2 weeks after her big win.
As pictures of her surfaced without her wedding ring and despite James’ statement that he works to save his marriage, the most loved Miss B. has plans of her own.
According to Fox news, a source has revealed that Bullock has a master plan to divorce James which will result in less stress for the Bullock family and James’ children. However the source does confirm that the couple will divorce.
The divorce is reportedly being filed while James seeks treatment at a sex rehab clinic in Texas. Jesse James admitted to having seven mistresses which causes a strain on the family and results in this divorce master plan. Sandra Bullock discovered her husband’s affair through the tabloids and since the story broke, went into hiding.
Fox also reports that the award winning actress accepts that James is not the man she thought he was. While it was shocking to the public when they married because of their drastic differences, they have come to accept them as a couple. Unfortunately Bullock being America’s Sweetheart does nothing to help Jesse James as this infidelity may permanently hurt his career. Sandra Bullock and Jesse James were married for six years.
James was accused of infidelity by multiple women shortly after Bullock won the Oscar for Best Actress for her role in "The Blind Side."
